Well it’s 23:15 and I’m finally home in London laying in bed. What a week! It’s been so busy and I am exhausted. I was worried how I was going to cope out of my comfort zone, back home in Wales but it was nowhere near as bad as I imagined it would be. Like so many things in life, it never is.
This is going to be a brief post as I am itching to get to sleep just so I can wake up in my own bed ha ha! Again, I am amazed and grateful at how much you can get done whilst sober and not suffering the effects of a filthy hangover. I spent SO much more quality time with my mum and other sisters. I was present. And actually somewhat pleasant to be around. I would normally spend my evenings there drinking with old school friends or my sisters (me being the ring leader of course and egging everyone on to get Pissed so I could blend in) and then the days moping and napping on the sofa. I would snap at my mum if she wanted help around the house. I’d talk her into “having a lazy day” with me so as I wouldn’t have to get dressed and go out. But this time there was none of that. I was up 1st every morning, which meant I could enjoy the quiet and tranquility of sitting in the garden with a cup of tea and my book. I helped and did most of the housework to give my mum a break. And I felt good about it. I wanted to do it. Myself and my sisters today completely gutted her living room and dining room and re painted for her. It looks fabulous and I know for a fact there is NO possible way I would have summoned up the energy to do that if I had been drinking.
On the drive home which takes about 2 hours 15 mins, my sister said “we should be picking a few bottles of wine up now. It’s Friday night and we deserve it!” and I won’t lie, when she said it I 100% could have drank it. All of it. But imagining wanting to drink is NOT the same as having the intention to actually follow through with it. I acknowledged that yes, it would be nice to relax with a few glasses of wine this evening….but unfortunately it is not that simple for me. I have 26 days sober now and I am NOT wiling to throw that away. Because let’s be honest, it wouldn’t just be a few glasses this evening would it?! If I could drink like that and know it wouldn’t be a downward spiral again I wouldn’t be sat here blogging! Ha ha 🙂
So no regrets. No bad feeling. I am happy. Happy to be in bed, and wake up tomorrow to start day 27.
I have done A LOT of sober blog reading this week to keep me strong and it has been a lifeline. So anyone out there who reads this………..thank you.
Good night xxx